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color: #3a2a0a !important; font-family: Georgia, serif !important; line-height: 1.7 !important; }\n\n .section-label { font-family: Arial, sans-serif !important; font-size: 11px !important; color: #D4A017 !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; letter-spacing: 2px !important; margin-bottom: 8px !important; display: block !important; }\n\n @media (max-width: 600px) {\n .story-headline h2 { font-size: 22px !important; }\n .body-copy p { font-size: 16px !important; }\n .price-now { font-size: 40px !important; }\n .bonus-item { flex-direction: column !important; }\n .bonus-img-wrap { width: 100% !important; max-width: 180px !important; }\n .cta-btn { font-size: 16px !important; padding: 18px 20px !important; }\n img.mockup-img { width: 100% !important; }\n }\n<\/style>\n\n<div class=\"blog-header\">\n <h1>Talk With Dr. Abiodun<\/h1>\n <p>Africa's Most Relatable Relationship Platform<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"blog-nav\">\n <span>Home<\/span> <span>Relationships<\/span> <span>Faith & Love<\/span> <span>For Women<\/span> <span>Contact<\/span>\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"page-wrap\">\n\n <div class=\"story-headline\">\n <span class=\"section-label\">Relationships \u00b7 Faith \u00b7 Real Talk<\/span>\n <h2>A Serious, Godly Man Finally Breaks His Silence \u2014 And Reveals the Simple Repositioning Moves That Help Devoted Single Women Get Noticed, Pursued, and Chosen By Intentional Men Before Another Year of Waiting Passes<\/h2>\n <p class=\"post-meta\"><span>Featured<\/span> Published: 1st April, 2026  \u00b7  Posted by Admin  \u00b7  14 min read<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <div class=\"body-copy\">\n\n <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/draconsult.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_9044-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Dr. Abiodun O. \u2014 Author and Relationship Mentor\" class=\"author-photo\" \/>\n <p style=\"text-align:center !important; font-size:13px !important; color:#999 !important; font-family:Arial,sans-serif !important; margin-top:-15px !important; margin-bottom:25px !important;\"><em>Dr. Abiodun O. \u2014 Relationship Mentor & Author<\/em><\/p>\n\n <p>You are one of the good ones.<\/p>\n <p>You know it. Your friends know it. Your church family knows it.<\/p>\n <p>You show up. You serve. You pray with real faith \u2014 not performance, not show. You have kept yourself in a world that tells you keeping yourself is old-fashioned and naive. You have standards \u2014 not because someone told you to, but because you actually believe in something.<\/p>\n <p>And yet.<\/p>\n <p>Here you are.<\/p>\n <p>Another Sunday. Another singles programme where the speaker says all the right things and you take notes and clap and say amen \u2014 and then walk to your car alone.<\/p>\n <p>Another WhatsApp group notification. Someone is engaged. You type the congratulations emoji before you have even processed the feeling sitting in your chest.<\/p>\n <p><em>God, what is wrong with me?<\/em><\/p>\n <p>Nothing is wrong with you. But something is happening \u2014 and nobody has been honest enough to tell you what it is.<\/p>\n <p>The men you respect never seem to see you that way. The ones who approach you are either unavailable, unserious, or completely wrong for you. The ones you actually want \u2014 the grounded ones, the intentional ones, the men who would actually show up \u2014 they smile at you in passing and keep walking.<\/p>\n <p>And you have tried everything they told you to try.<\/p>\n <p>You have fasted. You have declared. You have written the qualities in a journal so many times the pages are worn. You have attended the retreats. You have sat under the teaching and received the prophecy and smiled and said <em>\"God's time is the best.\"<\/em><\/p>\n <p>But inside \u2014 deep inside, where you don't let anyone go \u2014 a quieter voice is asking something you are almost afraid to think:<\/p>\n <p><em>What if God's timing isn't actually the issue here?<\/em><\/p>\n <p>What if there is something practical \u2014 something real and fixable \u2014 that nobody has ever thought to tell you? Something that has nothing to do with your worth, your beauty, your faith, or your future?<\/p>\n <p>What if the reason serious men are not choosing you has nothing to do with who you are \u2014 and everything to do with something you are doing that you don't even know you're doing?<\/p>\n <p>Drop everything you are doing right now and read every word I am about to say.<\/p>\n\n <hr class=\"divider\">\n\n <div class=\"promise-line\">\n Because I am about to share with you the honest male-perspective truth that turns another year of waiting into a clear, practical, spiritually grounded path to finally being chosen.\n <\/div>\n\n <p>Let me tell you something first.<\/p>\n <p>The advice you have been receiving has mostly come from women. Married women. Female pastors. Female relationship authors. Women who love you, who mean well, who are telling you the most truthful things they know.<\/p>\n <p>But they cannot tell you what they do not know.<\/p>\n <p>They cannot tell you what happens inside a serious man's mind in the first two encounters with a woman. They cannot tell you the specific, invisible signals that make him decide \u2014 quietly, quickly, sometimes within minutes \u2014 whether you are someone he pursues or someone he files away as a church friend. They have never been on that side of the decision. They cannot report from a place they have never been.<\/p>\n <p>I can.<\/p>\n <p>My name is <strong>Dr. Abiodun O.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/draconsult.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_9044-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Dr. Abiodun O.\" class=\"author-photo\" \/>\n\n <p>I am not a therapist. I am not a relationship coach with a certificate on my wall. I am a man \u2014 a serious, grounded, deeply spiritual man \u2014 who has spent years watching this pattern repeat itself with some of the most remarkable women I know.<\/p>\n <p>Women who prayed harder than anyone I knew. Women who were more beautiful on the inside than most people could articulate. Women who were doing everything right.<\/p>\n <p>And still waiting.<\/p>\n <p>I have been the man on the other side of that decision more times than I can count. I have watched intentional men \u2014 men I know personally, men who were genuinely ready \u2014 look at a woman they were initially drawn to, observe something in the first interaction or two, and quietly redirect their attention elsewhere. Without a word. Without an explanation. Without ever telling her what shifted.<\/p>\n <p>I have been in the conversations afterwards. I know what they said. I know what they noticed. I know the exact thing that changed.<\/p>\n <p>And for a long time, I kept that knowledge to myself \u2014 the way men do. We don't talk about these things. Not because we are malicious. But because nobody ever thought to ask us directly, and the women in our lives were getting advice from everywhere except the one place that would actually help.<\/p>\n\n <hr class=\"divider\">\n\n <p>I want to tell you about a woman I will call Temi.<\/p>\n <p>Temi is someone I have known since university. She is the kind of woman people use as an example in sermons. Brilliant, warm, spiritually rooted in a way that wasn't performance \u2014 it was just who she was. She carried herself with this quiet dignity that made people pay attention when she walked into a room.<\/p>\n <p>She was also single at 30. And the silence around that fact was deafening.<\/p>\n <p>I watched Temi try everything. She attended three different singles conferences in one year. She went on a 40-day fast specifically for this. She got counselling from two married women in her church whose advice, combined, amounted to: <em>\"Be patient. The right one is coming.\"<\/em><\/p>\n <p>I watched serious men enter her life and leave it without ever making a move. Not because they found her unattractive. Not because she wasn't ready. Not because God had forgotten her.<\/p>\n <p>But because of something she was doing \u2014 unconsciously, consistently \u2014 that sent a specific signal to intentional men that she was unavailable. Not romantically unavailable. <strong>Emotionally inaccessible.<\/strong><\/p>\n <p>There is a difference. A critical one. And nobody had ever explained it to her.<\/p>\n <p>Temi is not alone. I have watched this pattern with my own female friends, with women who have come to me for counsel, with women in my community who are genuinely ready but are inadvertently communicating something different.<\/p>\n <p>And after years of observing this \u2014 after dozens of honest conversations with men who walked away from women they were initially drawn to \u2014 I started to see the pattern clearly.<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"pull-quote\">\n It was not about her worth. It was not about God's timing. It was about specific, correctable things she was doing in the first two encounters that made serious men feel something \u2014 something she had no idea she was communicating.\n <\/div>\n\n <p>Let me be specific about what I mean. Because vague is useless to you at this point.<\/p>\n <p>Most godly women have been taught \u2014 correctly \u2014 to guard their hearts. To have standards. To not be too eager. To focus on God and let the man find them. Every single piece of that is true.<\/p>\n <p>But somewhere between the truth and the application, something goes wrong.<\/p>\n <p>The guarding becomes walls. The standards become a posture that reads as cold or unapproachable to a man who is watching carefully. The \"not being too eager\" becomes an emotional unavailability that makes him feel that pursuit would be unwelcome. The \"focusing on God\" becomes a kind of spiritual performance \u2014 being the most visible, most serving, most involved woman in every room \u2014 that actually signals to serious men that she has no room in her life for something new.<\/p>\n <p>None of this is her fault. She was never told the second half of the instruction.<\/p>\n <p>She was told to be available. No one told her how to be <em>accessible.<\/em><\/p>\n <p>She was told to have standards. No one told her that the way she carries those standards can either draw a serious man toward her or make him feel that approaching her would be an exercise in rejection.<\/p>\n <p>She was told the right man would find her. No one told her that finding is a two-part process \u2014 and that her positioning determines whether he sees her as the destination or passes her as scenery.<\/p>\n <p>I have had honest conversations with men \u2014 grounded, marriage-minded men \u2014 who have walked away from women they were genuinely interested in. Not because those women were lacking anything. But because within the first two encounters, something communicated \"this is not a door that opens.\"<\/p>\n <p>They did not say this to hurt anyone. They often felt conflicted about it themselves. But they made the decision quietly, the way serious men make decisions \u2014 with very little drama and very few words.<\/p>\n <p>And the woman never knew.<\/p>\n <p>She kept praying. She kept waiting. She kept attending programmes and writing in journals and telling herself God's timing is perfect \u2014 while the answer to her prayer walked past her twice and kept going because she didn't know what she was communicating.<\/p>\n <p>This is what wrecked me enough to finally write this.<\/p>\n <p>I am not dismissing prayer. I am not dismissing faith. I am a church man \u2014 I understand the waiting seasons, the declarations, the genuine spiritual hunger that makes a godly woman who she is. That foundation is not the problem.<\/p>\n <p>The problem is that spiritual preparation without practical positioning is like buying a beautiful house and leaving it with no address. God can send the man. But if she is not positioned in a way that makes her findable \u2014 really findable \u2014 he will walk past the property without knowing it was meant for him.<\/p>\n <p>I spent months pulling together everything I have observed, everything men I know have told me in honest conversation, and everything I have watched work in real relationships around me. I organised it into a framework that is spiritually consistent and practically actionable.<\/p>\n <p>Then I had two women close to me read the draft. One of them cried at chapter two. Not from sadness. From recognition.<\/p>\n <p><em>\"This is exactly what has been happening to me,\"<\/em> she said. <em>\"Why has nobody ever said this?\"<\/em><\/p>\n <p>That is why I am saying it now.<\/p>\n\n <hr class=\"divider\">\n\n <p>I get messages every week from women asking me questions I cannot answer individually \u2014 about specific men, specific situations, specific conversations that went cold without explanation.<\/p>\n <p>I cannot give everyone individual counsel. But I can give everyone the framework.<\/p>\n <p>So I put everything into one guide. The full picture. The male-perspective intelligence. The specific positioning moves. The spiritual and practical integration. The scripts. The red flags. The green flags. All of it \u2014 written honestly, from the inside.<\/p>\n <p style=\"text-align:center !important; font-size:22px !important; font-weight:bold !important; font-family:Georgia,serif !important; color:#1a0a00 !important; margin:30px 0 10px !important;\">Introducing...<\/p>\n\n <\/div>\n\n <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/draconsult.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-May-13-2026-03_00_19-PM.png\" alt=\"The Reason You're Still Single Has Nothing to Do With God's Timing \u2014 by Dr. Abiodun O.\" class=\"mockup-img\" \/>\n <p style=\"text-align:center !important; font-family:Georgia,serif !important; font-size:19px !important; font-weight:bold !important; color:#1a0a00 !important; margin:10px 0 5px !important; padding:0 20px !important;\">\"The Reason You're Still Single Has Nothing to Do With God's Timing\"<\/p>\n <p style=\"text-align:center !important; font-family:Arial,sans-serif !important; font-size:14px !important; color:#888 !important; font-style:italic !important; margin-bottom:30px !important; padding:0 20px !important;\">The Simple Repositioning Moves That Change Everything Before Another Year of Waiting Passes<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"inside-list\">\n <h3>Inside this guide, you will discover:<\/h3>\n <ul>\n <li><strong>The First Two Encounters Framework<\/strong> \u2014 A breakdown of exactly what a serious, marriage-minded man is observing, feeling, and silently deciding before you even know he's watching. This is the insider intelligence that changes everything. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 4<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Proverbs 31 Paradox<\/strong> \u2014 The honest, spiritually grounded explanation of why the most devoted women are sometimes the last to be chosen \u2014 and the specific missing piece between spiritual excellence and romantic attraction that nobody in church has told you. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 11<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Adaeze Shift<\/strong> \u2014 One immediately actionable adjustment in how you carry yourself and enter rooms that makes you simultaneously more approachable and more intriguing to serious men \u2014 without changing who you are. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 19<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Availability vs Accessibility Distinction<\/strong> \u2014 The critical difference between being available (willing) and being accessible (emotionally open and readable). Most godly women are completely available and completely inaccessible at the same time. This chapter tells you exactly why. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 26<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Intentional Man's Internal Checklist<\/strong> \u2014 The specific qualities, signals, and behaviours a marriage-minded man uses \u2014 consciously and unconsciously \u2014 to decide whether a woman is someone he pursues seriously or someone he files as a church friend. Written entirely from the male perspective. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 33<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Pursuit Response Guide<\/strong> \u2014 Exact guidance on what to say, what not to say, how much to give and how much to hold back \u2014 written so that a man who is showing interest moves forward with intention rather than stalling, retreating, or losing momentum. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 41<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Counterfeit Pursuit Detector<\/strong> \u2014 How to tell the difference between a man who is genuinely marriage-minded and one who simply enjoys your attention with no intention of committing \u2014 including the exact behaviours to watch across the first 30, 60, and 90 days. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 52<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Intentions Conversation Template<\/strong> \u2014 A word-for-word guide to having the \"where is this going\" conversation \u2014 direct, dignified, and impossible to misread as desperate or aggressive. The conversation most women delay too long and then have badly. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 60<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>The Godly Woman's Positioning Prayer<\/strong> \u2014 A structured 7-day prayer and action framework that runs your spiritual preparation and your practical repositioning simultaneously \u2014 faith and action, together, toward the same outcome. <span class=\"pg-ref\">\u2014 Pg. 67<\/span><\/li>\n <\/ul>\n <p style=\"margin-top:20px !important; font-size:15px !important; color:#555 !important; font-family:Arial,sans-serif !important; line-height:1.7 !important;\">And the best part? You do not need to attend another singles conference, receive another vague prophecy, or read another Western dating book that knows nothing about your world. This is the honest conversation that women like you have needed for a long time \u2014 from the one perspective that has always been missing.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <div class=\"testimonials-section\">\n <h3>Real Women. Real Results.<\/h3>\n <div class=\"comment-card\">\n <div class=\"comment-header\">\n <div class=\"avatar\" style=\"background-color:#800020 !important;\">CN<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-meta\">\n <div class=\"comment-name\">Chioma Nwosu<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-location\">Lagos, Nigeria \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddec<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-time\">3 days ago<\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-stars\">\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/div>\n <p class=\"comment-text\">I read this in one sitting and I had to close my laptop and just breathe for a moment. The chapter on the First Two Encounters \u2014 ehn. Nobody has ever explained to me what goes on in a man's mind like this. I always thought I was doing everything right. Now I understand what I was actually communicating. I applied the Adaeze Shift last Sunday at church and a man I have seen for six months finally came to have a proper conversation with me. E be like say this thing dey work o.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-card\">\n <div class=\"comment-header\">\n <div class=\"avatar\" style=\"background-color:#1a5c1a !important;\">AA<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-meta\">\n <div class=\"comment-name\">Abena Asante<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-location\">Accra, Ghana \ud83c\uddec\ud83c\udded<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-time\">1 week ago<\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-stars\">\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/div>\n <p class=\"comment-text\">I was skeptical because I have bought relationship books before and they all say the same thing \u2014 pray, wait, trust God. This is nothing like those books. This man actually tells you what men are thinking. The Proverbs 31 Paradox chapter made me uncomfortable in the best way. I shared it with two of my closest friends and we are all reading it together. The Intentions Conversation Template alone was worth every pesewa.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-card\">\n <div class=\"comment-header\">\n <div class=\"avatar\" style=\"background-color:#1a3a6a !important;\">FO<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-meta\">\n <div class=\"comment-name\">Folake Ogundimu<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-location\">London, UK \ud83c\uddec\ud83c\udde7<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-time\">5 days ago<\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-stars\">\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/div>\n <p class=\"comment-text\">Living in London as a Nigerian Christian woman is its own special kind of lonely when it comes to this topic. The Western dating advice doesn't apply. The Nigerian church advice doesn't account for my reality here. This guide actually speaks to both. There is a section specifically for women abroad and it felt like someone had been watching my life. Three weeks in and I am having completely different conversations. Different energy. Different results.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-card\">\n <div class=\"comment-header\">\n <div class=\"avatar\" style=\"background-color:#6a4a1a !important;\">TI<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-meta\">\n <div class=\"comment-name\">Taiwo Idowu<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-location\">Abuja, Nigeria \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddec<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-time\">2 weeks ago<\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-stars\">\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/div>\n <p class=\"comment-text\">I am 31 and I have been in church my whole life. I have done everything they said. This guide said things in chapter two that made me literally call my friend on the phone. \"Have you read this? Did you know this?\" The Counterfeit Pursuit Detector alone saved me from investing more time in someone I was unsure about. I could suddenly see exactly what was happening. Thank you Dr. Abiodun. This is the honest conversation we needed.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-card\">\n <div class=\"comment-header\">\n <div class=\"avatar\" style=\"background-color:#4a1a6a !important;\">AM<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-meta\">\n <div class=\"comment-name\">Amara Mensah<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-location\">Houston, TX \ud83c\uddfa\ud83c\uddf8<\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-time\">10 days ago<\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <div class=\"comment-stars\">\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605\u2605<\/div>\n <p class=\"comment-text\">I bought this because the title stopped my scroll completely. I thought it would be another motivational book telling me to pray more. Instead it is a clear, practical, spiritually grounded guide that finally explains things from a man's perspective. I forwarded the link to four women I know personally. One of them already messaged me to say it explained something she has been confused about for three years. 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